Community begins when we stop hiding.

I've been deeply inspired by Perry Gruber and his work through the Transamorous Network, creating space for honest conversations about trans-attraction, shame, identity, allyship, and belonging.

Too many people live in silence because they're afraid of being judged for who they love or how they see themselves. But silence keeps us isolated. Community helps us heal.

If we want a more compassionate world, we need the courage to listen, learn, and show up for one another.

Read my latest blog and discover why these conversations matter—for trans people, trans-attracted men, allies, and anyone who believes every person deserves dignity, respect, and belonging.

A thoughtful review of Lovely and all the Bullsht* by Mariah Bond, highlighting authentic storytelling, intersectionality, and the emotional realities of dating as a young Black trans woman.

Trusting Your Power: A Message to Trans Women Navigating Love

When my friend Danni, a thriving real estate agent and transgender woman in her late twenties, called me, I could tell by her voice that something was wrong. She shared that she had ended her six-month relationship with a man she had genuinely envisioned a future with. The reason? His reluctance to show affection in public and his fear of what his clients might think if they knew his girlfriend was transgender.